Have you ever dated a man who bought you flowers?

Hey, Girls?





Have you ever met a guy who you talked to once a month or seen briefly now and again where he one day bought flowers for you and from there went on a date?





The reason I am asking is; to me it looks like you must buy a women only flowers once you are dating and never before hand.





People say it makes you look desperate and want to bribe the poor women to date you?





I want to take my hairdresser out but she always looks a bit sad and not feeling special and I want to send her flowers with a note that reads something; Special flowers, for a special lady that I hope have a specail day..{myname}





I’ll first find out if she likes flowers and I will ask her what makes her special but I am certain she will say I’m not that special….And this will give me a reason to send her flowers 2 weeks later just because...I'll ask her out later, to show her I am not like all the guys





What are your thoughts on this. Have you ladies ever dated a guy who bought you flowers?

Have you ever dated a man who bought you flowers?
I have received flowers many times, it always made me feel special. Exactly one week from mine and my husbands first date he sent me a dozen pink roses and a teddy bear. He sent me so many gifts all the time, really kept after me and asked me out for each and every date, never assumed and mind you...im not old and neither is he. I am almost 24 and he will be 27 this year. Old fashioned really made a difference though. It let me know that he was always thinking of me and thought a lot OF me at that. It never got old, it says something about a man who takes time to send flowers or gifts. He must really be interested in you as a person. I say it's a go go go all the way! But don't send lily's, those are funeral flowers ;)
Reply:I think its sweet, as long as you don't like stock them and If its sincere and you're not doing it just so you can get in there pants.
Reply:guys think that flowers are a waste of money...you spend a lot on them and they just die...but what you guys dont know is that girls cant resist flowers...its makes her feel special and beautiful...so go ahead and buy her flowers...i think a guy who sends flowers to a girl is worth getting to know more....
Reply:well, i've had a guy give me flowers b4 we were dating (it is a bit weird but i did like it) but if u really wanna make her feel special then think of something original but of course not desperate bcuz flowers are just becoming too ordinary....
Reply:OK if you are interested in this woman, first find out if she likes flowers then if she does send them and say just though these were beautiful and they reminded me of you. I hope your day is special one (your name). I have gotten flowers three times in my life. twice by men I was dating and it honestly depends on the woman some women like flowers others don't. I hope this helps
Reply:No. that would be soo sweet though... I wish a guy would do that for me at least once.
Reply:That is so sweet. I don't doubt it would make her day and strongly consider dating you. Showing thoughtfulness, that you recognize she was having a bad day, etc. are the things that make relationships work.
Reply:I never, but I think it's really sweet of you to do that. She'll melt if she got a heart.
Reply:send her the flowers. every girl loves to get flowers. something simple, no roses until after you've been dating for a while.
Reply:Dated??


I married the guy!
Reply:yes. and i find it never goes out of style. its charming and romantic and let's her know that you are thinking about her.





special flowers for a special lady. i hope (these flowers) brighten your day (your name)





good luck dear
Reply:My mom told my sister that when a man gives flowers he's apologizing for something.
Reply:awwww i would SO date a guy who bought me flowers! DO IT!



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