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Wednesday, October 21, 2009

Flowers or no...girls and guys opinion?

I'm going on a 4th date tomorrow evening with a lady I've been seeing. We are going to be headed out on a picnic in a really beautiful spot overlooking some mountains. Here's the question- I'm fairly certain she is "into me" (4th date and all)...I think; would a flower or flowers (more than one) be inappropriate at this point?

Flowers or no...girls and guys opinion?
Of Course Not. Women always love to get flowers. We like them on the first date, the second, for anniversaries, for valentine's day, for mother's day, for our birthday or for no reason at all. Trust me you can never go wrong with flowers (unless she is allergic to them). Flowers, candy and stuffed animals are gifts you can never go wrong with. Now it's up to you if you want to give her one flower or a bouquet of flowers. Either one will work.
Reply:It depends on how well you know her. How comfortable are you with her? Have you guys made out or had sex? Passionate kisses? I don't think it's inappropriate if you're comfortable and cool with her.
Reply:Depends. Is she the type that would like flowers? If so, then by 4th date, it would definitely be appropriate. (Make sure she isn't allergic though)
Reply:it depends on the type of person she is. If she likes things like sports or is a tom boy, flowers might be a strike for you. On the other hand if she is an romantic, you might gain some points with flowers. It would also depend on the type of date as well, romantic or just looking for a remote place for some action. All of this would go into the decision. But I get the feeling that you are attempting to build a relationship, just follow your heart. You can always use the line I was just really thinking of you and the flowers felt good at the time. Don't attach any party favors or condoms to them you will sour any possible affect.
Reply:They're FLOWERS...lol


Are things really so messed up that a guy isn't sure if it's Ok to give a girl flowers? Flowers are beautiful and nice, it's a kind gesture...I can't see why any girl would be upset about someone giving them flowers???? I mean, unless you were a stalker or something..lol


She obviously likes you, she's gone out with you three times before...you seem like a nice guy so if you want to do something nice for her, give her some flowers...it'll be Ok


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Reply:Almost all ladies love flowers...most of them are given on the 1st date..Ive gotten flowers on 1st dates...and liked it so i dont see a problem with them given out on the 4th one..then youre going on a picnic overlooking mountains..the flowers will just make it more beautiful.hope this helps ..Good Luck !!Hope this last for you!
Reply:I think flowers would be a great idea and she would very much appreciate them. But definitely be careful in your selection because girls tend to analyze what you bring them. A dozen roses says "I love you". She will take this as you are trying to hard and want to get into her pants. I would recommend daisies or lillies which says "I like you and I want to get to know you better".
Reply:Less is more.
Reply:I don't think that flowers would be inappropriate but since you are taking her to such a beautiful place, why not let the flowers wait until next time and just let her admire the scenery.



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